November 22, 2009
Message from Shane . . .
Waldron's operation went fine on Thursday, Nov 19th. He will be recuperating for about a week at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital. Visitation is limited to just two family members, though. No word back from the tests yet. He is weak and his hemoglobin numbers are down significantly but that should return to normal, given time. He thanks everyone for their concern and is looking forward to getting home soon.
Keep him in your thoughts....
Monday, November 23, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Wally Leard...
November 18, 2009
Message from Shane . . .
I spoke with Waldron by phone this evening. He would like everyone to know that he is under the capable care of his surgeon at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Charlottetown. His operation will be taking place at 12:30 p.m. (AST) on Thursday, November 19th. It will likely be three to five hours in length and he will, undoubtedly, be quite groggy for a day or two afterwards. Once I hear anything new, I will post the information to the web site here and on his Facebook account.
My thoughts are with you Wally...Be well. May the surgeons hands be guided by angels and keep you safe..
BREATHE now and smile for me
Message from Shane . . .
I spoke with Waldron by phone this evening. He would like everyone to know that he is under the capable care of his surgeon at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Charlottetown. His operation will be taking place at 12:30 p.m. (AST) on Thursday, November 19th. It will likely be three to five hours in length and he will, undoubtedly, be quite groggy for a day or two afterwards. Once I hear anything new, I will post the information to the web site here and on his Facebook account.
My thoughts are with you Wally...Be well. May the surgeons hands be guided by angels and keep you safe..
BREATHE now and smile for me
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Cold November days
I love this time of year. The mornings dawn kinda gray and crisp. The trees are bare but there are still bursts of color from fall flowers that are hanging on. I can look out my window now and see patches of bright purple and yellow against the bank next door. It's pretty. But this cold makes me realize that very soon all of this will be covered with white snow..and once again the house will be wrapped in ice making it look like a scene from Dr Zhivago.
Ahhh New England..
This weekend's concert is a sell out. I am looking forward to seeing Andrea and Hilda and getting to know Remi. I am certain that it will be a great night of music. They have been playing all over the place.. From Maine to Boston to Springfield and New Hampshire the poor things will be beat by the time they get back to Cape Breton. I am happy for them though. Seems like this tour has been a great time for them all.
Not much happening here today. I wrote another 200 or so words in my "book". It is coming along nicely. I am still finding it esy to write every day which is good. I ahve over 20, 000 words written and lots more is in my head. There are some nasty characters working their magic in my brain. Its going to be quite an ending.. Have no idea where all of this will lead.. Fun stuff
So my friends have a great day and remember to tsay happy and safe..make some memories and whatever you do ..
Breathe and smile for me..
Ahhh New England..
This weekend's concert is a sell out. I am looking forward to seeing Andrea and Hilda and getting to know Remi. I am certain that it will be a great night of music. They have been playing all over the place.. From Maine to Boston to Springfield and New Hampshire the poor things will be beat by the time they get back to Cape Breton. I am happy for them though. Seems like this tour has been a great time for them all.
Not much happening here today. I wrote another 200 or so words in my "book". It is coming along nicely. I am still finding it esy to write every day which is good. I ahve over 20, 000 words written and lots more is in my head. There are some nasty characters working their magic in my brain. Its going to be quite an ending.. Have no idea where all of this will lead.. Fun stuff
So my friends have a great day and remember to tsay happy and safe..make some memories and whatever you do ..
Breathe and smile for me..
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Words that hurt
I think we all need to remember that words can hurt. Sure we all have moments of anger, human nature guarantees that. But what we say can linger. What we say can open wounds and cause pain.
Something that is of great interest to me is this. For the past 39 years..everyday or at least almost EVERY DAY. With the exception of maybe a total of 30 days in 39 years. Everyday I have gotten up made the bed, made breakfast, lunch and dinner. Did laundry, folded laundry, put away clothes for everyone in the house. I cleaned, washed floors, dusted..all that stuff that you just DO. Most of the time I did those things without help but I didn't expect help. I felt like this was what I should do. Keep everyone fed, happy and clean. I didn't do those things expecting to be cheered or thanked in any way at all!! I just did them every day for 39 years.
So I ask you this question. WHY would someone expect to be praised for doing the same thing I have done everyday for 39 years? When I clean or do laundry or fold clothes.. I don't stomp around making a big production out of it..I just get it done. I don't find the tasks stressful either. I just do them.
So for the past few days I have been bothered by a very stiff back. I haven't been as fast getting things done. The man in my house decided yesterday that he would help..but his idea of help is to constantly look over his shoulder waiting for me to say "gee you did a great job folding that laundry dear."."The dishes are just sparkling thank you for washing them." I didn't say those things.. So the man in this house started to get a bit wound up. I was writing yesterdays blog..he had walked out of living room and had left the TV on blaring away with some mindless program. I didn't have the remote..I didn't turn it off. SOOOOO in he comes..glaring at me as he says.."HOW CAN YOU WATCH THIS STUFF." He takes the remote from the table and changes the channel. To which I answered. "I wasn't even watching it I'm writing my blog." To which he answers..with a litany of swears calling me every name in the book.Stomps up and down the hallway slamming things around. So he did this because??? For not appreciating him??? Not a clue why..but let me say this. I don't deserve to be sworn at by him or anyone. So I didn't speak to him the rest of the evening and haven't said much this morning either. I was hurt and I was hurting physically at the time.
It all made me wonder how would he react to a major illness. How would he manage to be able to do all of the things that I do without thought day after day. Would he want praise? I sure hope I stay healthy..cause I'd never make it with him as a care giver. LOL God help me : )
So my friends remember words can hurt. Keep those thoughts to your self. The tongue can be a terrible beast. Tame it before you open your mouth. Have a great day and stay safe and happy. Don't worry I'll be making lunch for his nibs and dinner..and I'll never expect a word of thanks. : )
BREATHE now and smile for me...
Something that is of great interest to me is this. For the past 39 years..everyday or at least almost EVERY DAY. With the exception of maybe a total of 30 days in 39 years. Everyday I have gotten up made the bed, made breakfast, lunch and dinner. Did laundry, folded laundry, put away clothes for everyone in the house. I cleaned, washed floors, dusted..all that stuff that you just DO. Most of the time I did those things without help but I didn't expect help. I felt like this was what I should do. Keep everyone fed, happy and clean. I didn't do those things expecting to be cheered or thanked in any way at all!! I just did them every day for 39 years.
So I ask you this question. WHY would someone expect to be praised for doing the same thing I have done everyday for 39 years? When I clean or do laundry or fold clothes.. I don't stomp around making a big production out of it..I just get it done. I don't find the tasks stressful either. I just do them.
So for the past few days I have been bothered by a very stiff back. I haven't been as fast getting things done. The man in my house decided yesterday that he would help..but his idea of help is to constantly look over his shoulder waiting for me to say "gee you did a great job folding that laundry dear."."The dishes are just sparkling thank you for washing them." I didn't say those things.. So the man in this house started to get a bit wound up. I was writing yesterdays blog..he had walked out of living room and had left the TV on blaring away with some mindless program. I didn't have the remote..I didn't turn it off. SOOOOO in he comes..glaring at me as he says.."HOW CAN YOU WATCH THIS STUFF." He takes the remote from the table and changes the channel. To which I answered. "I wasn't even watching it I'm writing my blog." To which he answers..with a litany of swears calling me every name in the book.Stomps up and down the hallway slamming things around. So he did this because??? For not appreciating him??? Not a clue why..but let me say this. I don't deserve to be sworn at by him or anyone. So I didn't speak to him the rest of the evening and haven't said much this morning either. I was hurt and I was hurting physically at the time.
It all made me wonder how would he react to a major illness. How would he manage to be able to do all of the things that I do without thought day after day. Would he want praise? I sure hope I stay healthy..cause I'd never make it with him as a care giver. LOL God help me : )
So my friends remember words can hurt. Keep those thoughts to your self. The tongue can be a terrible beast. Tame it before you open your mouth. Have a great day and stay safe and happy. Don't worry I'll be making lunch for his nibs and dinner..and I'll never expect a word of thanks. : )
BREATHE now and smile for me...
Monday, November 16, 2009
Wishes and thoughts
Today I am thinking about my friend Waldron Leard on PEI. He is battling cancer at the moment. Awaiting word from the hospital for surgery. Wally is the heart and soul of a website called The Eastern Kings Meeting Place..or http://ekpei.ca/072.html
This site is a daily visit for me. Photo of the day gives me a peek into the goings on in my home away from here. Wally is also the community historian. Anyone who wants to search for island roots can just check with him and he will help you find that long lost family. I cannot imagine Kingsboro without Wally Leard. He is always there, photographing events. Making video's writing articles for the local paper.
The world is a better place because of that gentle man. His shy knowledge is a treasure which is shared with his community and the world. His pride about the website is always redirected away from himself and towards the other folks who take photos and write bits of information. He is never one to brag about himself..But is always ready to share a story or a memory.
Today I am thinking about Wally and wishing him God's care. I pray that the Doctors can remove the cancer and save his life. I ask all of you to give my friend a thought today..send out a prayer if you do that ..send out a positive wish..Take care Wally..thinking of you.
Breathe now and smile for me..
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Well it's been awhile...
Things were just plain crazy here last week. My bosses were putting on a luncheon and somehow I was pulled in to the planning , the cooking and the decorating. Lots and lots of work. But it went off very nicely. They had a good crowd show up..I'd guestimate about 60 for the meal and probably double that for the antique sale.
This week I have gotten back to writing. It is fascinating how this story is spinning itself out, When I first started I thought it would be a simple story suitable for young adults. I had a beginning, middle and end all planned out.
Now my teacher said "DON'T DO THAT ! Start with an idea, add your characters, slowly tell the reader about these people. Keep them guessing don't tell then too much. Just write and let the story tell itself."
Well he was right..and when I let go of what I thought should happen..the characters started speaking to me..it is so strange. They have become so real,,some are still slowly revealing themselves and others are so different than I thought they would be. Through it all my main character the young girl remains just that a young girl. She is totally unaware of the corruption, the affairs, the evil that is about to tear her family apart. It's steamy in parts, there is a thread of waiting for the shoe to drop..while some of the adults dance and turn trying to cover up the awful things they have done. I'm loving it.. 14,000 words done..and I've just started.. : )
So if you don't see anything new in here for a few days that's why.. Next weekend will see Andrea's concert. We have only 4 seats left..Looks like another sell out.
For now my friends I'll tell you to stay safe..have fun and make some memories..Whatever you do..remember
BREATHE and smile for me
This week I have gotten back to writing. It is fascinating how this story is spinning itself out, When I first started I thought it would be a simple story suitable for young adults. I had a beginning, middle and end all planned out.
Now my teacher said "DON'T DO THAT ! Start with an idea, add your characters, slowly tell the reader about these people. Keep them guessing don't tell then too much. Just write and let the story tell itself."
Well he was right..and when I let go of what I thought should happen..the characters started speaking to me..it is so strange. They have become so real,,some are still slowly revealing themselves and others are so different than I thought they would be. Through it all my main character the young girl remains just that a young girl. She is totally unaware of the corruption, the affairs, the evil that is about to tear her family apart. It's steamy in parts, there is a thread of waiting for the shoe to drop..while some of the adults dance and turn trying to cover up the awful things they have done. I'm loving it.. 14,000 words done..and I've just started.. : )
So if you don't see anything new in here for a few days that's why.. Next weekend will see Andrea's concert. We have only 4 seats left..Looks like another sell out.
For now my friends I'll tell you to stay safe..have fun and make some memories..Whatever you do..remember
BREATHE and smile for me
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
November, november...
My boys in the Bronx are playing so well ! Man, I hope they wrap this up tomorrow night in the "big house" I'll be watching and looking towards right field and the Model's sign. : ) That is an inside joke..So for those of you who are out of the loop you can just wonder.. LOL
Election day today and here in Agawam I had the grand choice of voting for a well known 30 something THUG or another man of questionable character.. Good grief..It took me forever to make a decision. I was going to write in Micky Mouse, then I thought I'd write in myself. I wasn't sure if doing something like that would cause all of my votes to be nullified. So in the end I went with choice number 2. Based only on the fact that he has had more experience I do not like the man at all!
I took a drive over to The Christmas Tree Shop and got three pretty glass pitchers for the house. I am sick to death of the ugly plastic ones that are here now. YUKKY.. It will be nice to have something pretty that matches for parties and meetings.
I am working away at my book. I have almost 10,000 words written it is coming along nicely. So interesting how it is taking shape. It isn't anything at all like I had planned. There seem to be two plots developing..one as seen by the young girl..her eyes see as a child does. She is unaware of the corruption and deceit that is swirling around. It is looking very much like someone will die..probably two people will die. One the victim of a tragic accident the other...hummmm not sure suicide or murder.. Wherever my vivid imagination and fingers take me. The title of the book is "RABBIT SUMMER" and I can promise that the rabbits will be saved...
So my friends I wish you all a happy Tuesday.. J J ..I wish I was up there to make you some coffee.. It is really easy..just follow the directions I posted on Facebook : )... For all the rest of you stay safe, stay happy and whatever you do remember to
BREATHE and smile for me...
Election day today and here in Agawam I had the grand choice of voting for a well known 30 something THUG or another man of questionable character.. Good grief..It took me forever to make a decision. I was going to write in Micky Mouse, then I thought I'd write in myself. I wasn't sure if doing something like that would cause all of my votes to be nullified. So in the end I went with choice number 2. Based only on the fact that he has had more experience I do not like the man at all!
I took a drive over to The Christmas Tree Shop and got three pretty glass pitchers for the house. I am sick to death of the ugly plastic ones that are here now. YUKKY.. It will be nice to have something pretty that matches for parties and meetings.
I am working away at my book. I have almost 10,000 words written it is coming along nicely. So interesting how it is taking shape. It isn't anything at all like I had planned. There seem to be two plots developing..one as seen by the young girl..her eyes see as a child does. She is unaware of the corruption and deceit that is swirling around. It is looking very much like someone will die..probably two people will die. One the victim of a tragic accident the other...hummmm not sure suicide or murder.. Wherever my vivid imagination and fingers take me. The title of the book is "RABBIT SUMMER" and I can promise that the rabbits will be saved...
So my friends I wish you all a happy Tuesday.. J J ..I wish I was up there to make you some coffee.. It is really easy..just follow the directions I posted on Facebook : )... For all the rest of you stay safe, stay happy and whatever you do remember to
BREATHE and smile for me...
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